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Learn how to get the most from your reading. |
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| Dr. Nikki's How to Prepare ( for your reading ) |
| When you are driving in traffic, watching your son’s soccer match, rushing through the line at lunch, or calling with a house full of people you deprive yourself of much of what you are paying for in a reading. To get the best value for your money I recommend that clients do the following to prepare for a Reading (whether from me or anyone else): 1. Set aside appropriate time for the reading. I recommend that you set aside not only the time for the reading, but an additional five to ten minutes just to make sure. Take a minute or two to focus on what you want to ask before you dial the phone. Write the question or questions you want answers for down before you dial! 2. Have your questions ready. Making a list of the things you want to cover is a great way to start. Do you have a specific question, or are you looking for a general reading about what’s happening with you now? When composing your question, really give it some thought. Asking a "yes/no", "either/or" question is going to leave you very unsatisfied. Giving thought to your question can make a tremendous difference in your reading experience. Here’s an example of a bad question followed by a rephrasing of the question in a more appropriate format to maximize the readings potential: ----------------- Q: Is my boyfriend cheating on me? (This is a specific yes/no question. We can look at it and tell you what we feel, but it may not be giving you the answer you are looking for. Thinking more about the issue will help you develop a better question.) A: Yes or No ----------------- Q: What are the prospects for the love relationship I am in? (This not only gives a much wider range of information requested, but it also allows you to put the focus where you want it to be without predisposing the reader. Further, a question asked this way allows for a much more comprehensive reading.) A: “I can see that there are difficulties here with communication and trust. You are struggling to hold on to something that is already yours although you aren’t quite realizing that yet. I see long term prospects here for this relationship because….etc. ------------------ 3. If you have a specific modality that you would prefer we use while we conduct your reading, have that written down with your questions and please let us know at the beginning of the call. This way you’ll be sure to remember to ask us for the modality of your choice. If you don’t state a specific modality preference, we will choose which one feels best to us for your call. 4. Make your donation. 5. Follow the instructions provided with your receipt or confirmation e-mail. This will give you the steps to follow to receive your reading. At the beginning of your call you will be asked for certain basic information. Normally we ask for your first name, date of birth, and what your question is. This is all done before the reading actually goes “on the clock.” |
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY I strongly believe that each individual is responsible unto themselves for their choices and actions. Although I give you the best of my efforts and gifts, I am only human too. It is up to you, as an individual, to incorporate the information you obtain from a reading into your life as a part of a much larger cohesive whole. As a reader I do my best to help you see the road ahead and to help you to avoid potential pitfalls. But I leave it to you (who ultimately has the most information about your own path) to incorporate the messages appropriately. |
| The biggest mistake I have seen people make is to not give their reading the attention it deserves. |
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